When He Takes Mores Than 5 Second To Reply To Your Text, Do This
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When we don't feel good about ourselves, and a guy we love doesn't respond to our texts immediately, it is very easy to assume he is rejecting us 😠😡
In a bid to safeguard ourselves from hurt, What usually follows in such situation is a lot of reactivity and drama.
We tend to go off on him with the following questions
😡"What were you doing"?
😡"So, it's after 2 hours you choose to reply me"?
😡"But you were online, was it so difficult to text and tell me that you were busy"?
Depending on our level of insecurity, we could take it up a notch by issuing threats and ultimatum
😢"If my messages are not replied on time, I would stop texting you"
😢"I'm going to delete you from my life if you don't treat me right"
😢"I deserve better than This, I'm not going to put up who doesn't make time for me"
What we don't realize when we do all these is, it makes us come off as heavy, lot of stress, and always nagging.
When a woman appears to be heavy, stressful, or always complaining, it feels like a huge pressure for men. It creates an environment where they are unable to really love you as they would have, because you come with so much drama.
Usually when we nag a man for trival matters like this, he apologizes.
When a man realizes that his relationship is one in which he has to constantly apologize, he gets the idea that he isn't good enough for you, and he finds a way to leave the relationship so you can find someone else that brings you joy.
The next time you want to freak out when he doesn't reply you immediately, ask yourself
"Why does this upset me so much "?🤔
More often than not, it upsets you because you take his actions to mean he doesn't want you anymore, and you are scared of being rejected.
In that case, take responsibility for your emotions.
Do the inner work
And stop projecting your self worth issues on your partner.
His actions are never a reflection of your value/worth.
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