When He Pulls Away and What to do to Get Him Back.
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When a man starts pulling away from you, he usually does one of the following things
💔 He calls less than he used to
💔 He plans less dates
💔 Communication becomes distant
💔 He wants to hang out less
when he does any of these things, we freak out and start assuming he's cheating, he found someone else, or that he doesn't want to be with us anymore.
We describe his actions by saying
"He has changed"
" He doesn't treat me like he used to"
"He's behaving weird"
"He's acting funny"
Out of fear and anxiety, what always follows is us reacting extremely to what is a natural process. We cry, send long texts, and take drastic measures such as breaking up.
There are different reasons men pull away, and most of these reasons have nothing to do with us.
Sometimes men pull away as part of a natural process of seeking independence. While women are more bonding in nature, men love their space and freedom.
Sometimes they pull away because they are immersed in their life. They become busy, and you notice their distance as emotional disconnection because you have become too needy and overly invested in him.
Sometimes they pull away to set the pace of the relationship, and figure out what they really want.
In other situations, men pull away because we complain too much.
What must you do when he pulls away? Nothing. You must do NOTHING.
When you feel him pulling away. Do nothing, trying to ask him to explain the reason for his actions is only your ego seeking control. Because you feel once you can get him to explain why he's acting up, you could somehow fix it, and turn the relationship around.
Why must you turn the relationship around?
Because you want to go back to feeling happy and loved? Is that it?
But shouldn't you feel happy and loved at all times without a Relationship?
You should.
When he pulls away, sit back on your throne and do nothing. Trying to get him to come back, will only make him pull away further.
❤Carry on with your life
❤Stop expecting things to get solved this very minute
❤No long texts or constant calls demanding an explanation
❤No cries and issuing of ultimatum.
Allow him the space to bounce back to you when he's ready.
Give a man the space to be himself. Let him see your security and composure when he does pull away. That is how you demonstrate that you have your act together, and that in his sea of options, you are the best choice.
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